I initially came to BBJJ expecting to get one, maybe two things out of my time there: physical fitness and the ability to defend myself. As an undergrad student who lives on a big college campus 85% of year, I just wanted to learn how to land a good punch should I ever need to fend someone off. After spending my summer going to Thai kickboxing classes 2-3 times a week, I can indeed land a punch - but I was surprised to discover that that wasn't the most rewarding part of being a part of BBJJ. You can probably learn basic technique at most decent dojos, but BBJJ gives you so much more than that. Over the course of two and a half months, I learned the importance of discipline and self-respect and how to build my confidence so that I can push myself to do the best that I can while accepting the fact that I have limits.
Honestly, as a person who has gone through life with a personal vendetta against exercise and a physically limiting case of exercise-induced asthma, I didn't expect much of myself when I signed up. But BBJJ makes it impossible for you not to grow to expect more of yourself. Just seeing the commitment and the passion of everyone else in your classes makes you genuinely want to put your all into every exercise.
The environment is the best thing about this place, and I would wager that it's the thing that makes BBJJ singularly unique among other martial arts places. The personal treatment the instructors give you, and the extremely uplifting, supportive, and friendly that they have built, puts you at ease no matter what your beginning level of fitness or skill is. As someone who was not particularly fit, I was so nervous walking into my first class. But by the time I was sweating on the bench forty-five minutes later, I was completely at ease. The instructors knew my name after the first class. My fellow kickboxing seniors are always willing to help me with my technique if I'm struggling, and are always there to offer words of encouragement and concern if my asthma flares up during class. The instructors are the same way, and have never once made me feel inadequate or lacking in any area. (I'd also like to mention that at some point during my time here, I unexpectedly had to get stitches and could not go to class for two weeks. The instructors were very understanding of this fact, and we were able to quickly iron out any issues regarding payment and missing classes.)
In conclusion: if you want to learn kickboxing or jiu-jitsu technique, there are plenty of places you can go to, but if you are looking for personable and encouraging instructors, self-confidence, a clean and safe environment, and - most importantly - a family, come to the 13th ave BBJJ.